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My Official Fall Personality

Posted on September 22, 2026September 21, 2026 by Vikki Lynn Sorensen

I am an Autumn.

I was born in October, so technically, I have been an Autumn since birth. But I don’t just like fall. I absolutely thrive in it.

There is something that happens to me when the calendar gets closer to October. My entire personality seems to shift. I go from being a grumpy, tired, indoors-loving ogre who spends the summer with her hair thrown back into whatever is coolest, wearing sloppy shorts and a tank top, walking barefoot around the house and drinking iced lattes, to a completely different human being.

Then comes the first hint of fall, and suddenly my entire outlook on life changes.

The windows open. The sweaters come out. The blankets begin migrating into all my favorite corners of the house. I stop refilling the ice cube tray quite as often.

Hot coffee in the morning and a soothing cup of hot tea in the evening suddenly sound like exactly what I need to survive another day.

And honestly?

I love everything about it.

I Was Born an Autumn

I love the smell of burning wood drifting through the neighborhood when people light their first fires of the season. I love watching the world outside transform as the bright blues, whites, and pinks of summer give way to deep reds, oranges, and fiery yellows.

And those colors?

Normally, they aren’t even my favorites. But when fall arrives, suddenly I’m looking at an orange tree like it personally performed a miracle.

Give me a crisp breeze, an open window, a warm blanket, a cup of coffee, and a slightly spooky book, and I am one very happy Autumn.

Maybe that’s why I feel so different when fall arrives. Summer seems to demand things from me.

Go outside.

Enjoy the sunshine.

Be productive.

Get some fresh air.

Fall doesn’t seem to care quite as much. Fall says, “Come inside. Put on a sweater. I’ll make some soup.”

Obviously, we understand each other.

My Home Gets a Seasonal Makeover

My house changes with the season, too.

Suddenly, I want everything to feel warm and cozy. The blankets come out. The candles get switched up. The coffee mugs somehow become more important. My reading spots become sacred territory.

I start thinking about soups, casseroles, and baked things, even though I am perfectly capable of eating the exact same foods I ate in July.

There is just something about fall that makes me want to slow down.

Maybe it’s the cooler temperatures. Maybe it’s the shorter days. Maybe it’s the fact that summer has finally stopped yelling at me to go outside.

Whatever it is, I welcome it.

Fall feels like permission to stay home.

It feels like permission to put on a sweater, grab a book, make something warm to drink, and settle into my favorite chair without feeling like I should be doing something else.

And maybe that’s one of the reasons I love this season so much.

It makes ordinary things feel special. A mug of coffee becomes an event. A blanket becomes a necessity. Opening a window becomes one of the best parts of the day. And sitting quietly with a book suddenly feels like exactly where I’m supposed to be.

Of course, speaking of books…

My Fall Reading Personality Comes Out

Summer me wants sunshine, vacation vibes, and maybe a cute little romance.

Fall me?

Give me an old house. Give me a mysterious woman wandering around an abandoned property. Give me a creaky staircase, a family secret, and something that may or may not be haunting the attic.

Preferably with a cup of tea beside me.

I don’t know what happens to me when fall rolls around, but apparently my reading preferences suddenly develop a deep appreciation for ghosts. And honestly, I’m okay with it.

My light summer and beach reads slowly give way to haunted houses, mysterious old homes, family secrets, forgotten histories, and stories with just enough creepiness to make me want to curl up under a blanket.

Nothing too terrifying, of course.

I’m still trying to sleep at night.

But give me a slightly creepy house, a woman determined to uncover its secrets, and the possibility that something strange happened there fifty years ago?

I’m in. Preferably before dark – although if we’re being honest, that’s when the story gets interesting.

And apparently, my seasonal personality isn’t limited to my reading choices.

It has opinions about my wardrobe, too.

I love Fall fashions!

I go from, “What is the absolute minimum amount of clothing I can wear without getting arrested for indecent exposure?” to, “Look at me! I have layers!”

Sweaters.

Jeans.

Cozy socks.

Cardigans.

I love them all.

There is something incredibly satisfying about putting on a sweater and realizing you are actually comfortable. Even better, I can leave the house without immediately feeling like I’ve walked into a hair dryer. There is something wonderful about stepping outside on a crisp fall morning and realizing you actually need a jacket.

I will take that over sweating while standing perfectly still any day of the week.

And I love the little things that come with it.

The sound of leaves crunching under my feet. The first chilly morning. The smell of coffee drifting through the house. A blanket over my legs while I read (although, that’s me year round). The early evening darkness. A warm meal simmering in the kitchen. The anticipation of Halloween. The beautiful colors everywhere I look.

The feeling that the world itself has slowed down just a little.

Maybe that’s really what I love most.

Fall doesn’t seem to rush me.

And as I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized just how much I appreciate that.

The Little Things I Notice Now

Fall makes me nostalgic, too.

Maybe that’s part of getting older. Seasons seem to carry memories with them.

I think about my girls when they were little. Halloween costumes. School activities. Chilly mornings. Pumpkin patches. Trips to pick out Halloween candy. All those ordinary little moments that didn’t seem particularly important at the time.

Now those ordinary moments are some of the ones I remember most.

That’s the funny thing about life.

When we’re living through a moment, we don’t always know we’re creating a memory.

We think we’re just making breakfast, driving them to school, picking out Halloween costumes, taking pictures, and watching our kids run around the house. We don’t realize we’re creating memories. We just think we’re living an ordinary day.

Then suddenly, years have passed, and those ordinary moments are the ones we would give almost anything to experience one more time.

Maybe that’s another reason I love fall so much. It reminds me that life doesn’t have to be loud to be beautiful. Sometimes it’s a quiet morning, a warm mug, a good book, and a blanket. Sometimes it’s opening the windows and letting cool air move through the house. Sometimes it’s watching the trees change colors and realizing that change can actually be beautiful. Which, considering I’m approaching 58, is probably a lesson I should appreciate.

Because I am changing, too.

Getting Older Has Its Seasons

I’m not the woman I was in my twenties or thirties.

I’m not even the woman I was ten years ago.

And you know what?

That’s okay.

There are things about getting older that I don’t particularly love. My body has opinions now that it didn’t used to have. My metabolism apparently retired without telling me. My energy doesn’t always cooperate with my plans.

But there are also things I genuinely appreciate about being this age. I know myself a whole lot better than I used to. I know what I like, what I don’t like, what I’m willing to put up with, and what I absolutely am not. I know what matters to me now, and I’m finally getting better at letting the rest go. I’m also learning that changing doesn’t mean something is wrong with me. Maybe it just means I’m not supposed to stay exactly the same forever.

Maybe fall is a good reminder of that.

The trees don’t apologize for losing their leaves.

They don’t panic and say, “Oh no! I’m not green anymore!”

They simply change. They let go of what they don’t need and, eventually, they begin again.

There is something comforting about that.

We spend so much of our lives trying to hold on to who we used to be.

The younger version of ourselves.

The version with different dreams, different responsibilities, different energy, and probably a metabolism that didn’t require a committee meeting before agreeing to burn a calorie.

But maybe we’re not supposed to stay the same.

Maybe we’re supposed to have seasons, too.

Maybe some things are meant to fall away.

Maybe some things are meant to make room for something new.

And maybe getting older isn’t about becoming less of who we were.

Maybe it’s about becoming more comfortable with who we are now.

I don’t know.

I’m still figuring that part out.

But I do know that every year, when the temperatures drop and the leaves begin to change, something in me settles down.

I breathe a little deeper.

I slow down.

I notice things.

I open the windows.

I make coffee.

I pick up a book.

I pull a blanket over my legs.

And for a little while, everything feels exactly as it should.

Fall Me Has Arrived

So yes.

I am officially declaring myself an Autumn.

Not just because I was born in October.

Not just because I love sweaters, hot coffee, cozy blankets, open windows, changing leaves, and slightly creepy books.

But because something about this season feels like home.

Summer me can keep her iced latte and her air conditioning.

Fall me is here.

She’s wearing a sweater, carrying a hot cup of coffee, opening the windows, admiring the leaves, thinking about soup, and probably looking for her next haunted house to read about.

And she is very, very happy to be here.

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Where Home Begins

Posted on August 11, 2026August 11, 2026 by Vikki Lynn Sorensen

I’ve always thought the words house and home were interchangeable.

They’re not.

One is a building. The other is an experience.

Anyone who’s lived any sort of life knows what I’m talking about.

When I was married and living in Texas, my house was just that: a house. It was filled with people I loved, especially my daughters, but overall, it was simply a building. A shelter from storms. A roof over our heads.

Within those walls were happy moments, little sparkles of what could have been, and the saving grace I always found in my children’s laughter.

But it was also the place where I learned how to become the most insignificant version of myself.

It was where harsh words were spoken instead of loving ones. Where accusation and regret hung like cobwebs in the corners. Where I longed for a life that seemed to belong to everyone else because I couldn’t imagine it ever happening to me.

Thankfully, divorce freed me.

Yes, the divorce was painful. But it gave me freedom.

And my girls and I came home.

Our home wasn’t perfect. It was a weird little townhome with odd walls, a strange galley kitchen, and a funkily placed bathroom. It needed paint, a new furnace, a new ceiling, and a new roof.

It was a money pit.

But my mother was there.

And in the middle of all my hurt and pain, she welcomed us…home.

For all its imperfections, it was home until the day she died.

Then, quietly, it reverted back to being a house.

A very lonely one, filled with memories and grief.

My girls and I lived like nomads in two different apartments. They were houses, but somehow, we managed to turn them into homes.

We grieved there. We healed there. We grew there.

Then my sister and I bought our current house.

Turning it into a home has been a challenge. How do you merge four distinct personalities and settle them all under one roof?

Challenging?

Yes.

Worth it?

YES.

Because over these past two years, we’ve made it a home.

And I notice the shift whenever one or more of us isn’t here.

The house feels different.

Quieter.

Less alive.

Which brings me to the question you might be asking:

“Why are you telling me all this, Vikki Lynn?”

Or maybe:

“When are you going to tell me how to make my house feel like a home?”

I’m not.

That’s not what I’m here for.

Oh, I have things that make our house cozy. Candles. Crocheted blankets. Pillows. Comfy furniture. Even a fireplace.

But none of those things make this a home.

Home is when my dad and stepmom come over every Saturday night and we share a meal while telling the same stories we’ve told a hundred times before.

Home is when my daughter, son-in-law, and granddaughter visit, and I get to pull out all the little things I’ve bought just for her because, well…

I’m a Grandma.

And I can.

Home is pulling out the carefully labeled holiday bins and decorating for every single season because it’s a joy to do it with someone who loves holidays as much as I do.

Home is every home-cooked meal we share, whether we’re gathered around the dining room table or sitting in front of the television watching Midsomer Murders.

Home is where my sisters plant, place, and carefully tend to all the beautiful flowers out front and in back. It’s where the birds come to eat, knowing there will always be food waiting for them.

(The squirrels come to dine, too, but we won’t talk about that.)

Home isn’t made with objects.

It’s made with memories.

With people.

With smells.

With sounds.

It’s made with laughter echoing through the halls, familiar voices filling the rooms, and the quiet comfort of knowing you belong.

That’s what turns a house into a home.

Not the furniture.

Not the paint.

Not the perfectly decorated rooms.

Not even the fireplace.

It’s the life that happens inside those four walls.

The people who fill them.

The memories that linger long after everyone has gone to bed.

The laughter.

The tears.

The ordinary Tuesday nights and the big Saturday dinners.

The holidays and the hard days.

The coming home.

Because maybe that’s the difference between a house and a home.

A house is where you live.

Home is where you belong.

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The Home I Always Wanted to Create in Midlife

Posted on July 17, 2026August 7, 2026 by Vikki Lynn Sorensen

There is something about getting older that changes the way we see home.

Home becomes more than the place where we sleep, keep our belongings, and go through our daily routines. It becomes a reflection of the life we have lived, the seasons we have walked through, and the peace we have learned to appreciate in ways we may not have understood before.

For most of my life, I carried a picture in my heart of the kind of home I wanted to create. I didn’t always know how to describe it, but I knew how I wanted it to feel.

I wanted a classic, cozy home. A place that felt warm, welcoming, and steady. A home with a fireplace that actually gets used on cold winter nights instead of simply being something pretty to look at. A home filled with books because someone actually reads them, not because they make a nice decoration. A home that embraces simple living in a world that constantly tells us to move faster.

And if I’m honest, I always pictured having a little land too. Nothing extravagant. Just enough space to breathe. Trees moving in the wind, a small garden changing with the seasons, and maybe water nearby like a lake or creek reminding me that life has its own rhythm.

For years, I thought I was dreaming about a house.

Now I realize I was longing for peace.

Creating a Home That Feels Like Peace

Life looked very different for me during the years when I was raising my daughters and working full time.

My days stayed full from morning until night. I handled responsibilities, solved problems, and kept moving because that was what life required. I didn’t spend much time thinking about what I needed or what kind of environment helped me feel refreshed.

During those years, my home served a purpose. It was where we lived, rested, and made memories, but it often felt more functional than peaceful.

And I don’t say that with regret.

Those years shaped me. They strengthened me. They taught me resilience and showed me what I was capable of handling.

But I remember those quiet moments at the end of the day when everything finally settled down. I would climb into bed exhausted, knowing tomorrow would bring another full day of doing it all over again.

For a long time, that became my normal.

I didn’t realize how much I craved peace until life finally started to slow down.

Finding a Slower Rhythm in Midlife

Now I find myself in a different season of life.

I still work full time. I still have responsibilities. Life is not empty or without purpose. But the pace has changed.

My daughters are grown and building lives of their own. I get to watch them experience new seasons, including motherhood, while remembering what it felt like when I was the one carrying the weight of so much responsibility.

In some ways, life feels slower now.

There is more quiet.

More space.

Less urgency.

But at the same time, time seems to move faster than ever.

The days no longer feel like a blur of survival, but the years seem to pass quickly. I find myself looking around and wondering how I arrived at this season so soon.

That realization has changed the way I see my home.

It has also changed the way I want to live inside it.

The Home I Dreamed About Was Taking Shape All Along

For years, I thought the home I wanted existed somewhere in the future.

I thought I would eventually arrive at a season where everything looked exactly how I imagined.

But now I see something different.

The home I wanted has been taking shape all along.

My home today is not perfect, and honestly, I don’t want it to be. I want it to feel lived in. I want it to tell a story.

It feels warm and peaceful. It holds quiet mornings, conversations, laughter, and moments of rest.

My sisters keep flowers outside when the seasons allow, and inside my home you will find handmade blankets I created with my own hands. There is something comforting about making things slowly in a world that rushes everything.

I have learned to appreciate simple things.

Opening the windows and letting fresh air move through the house.

Standing outside and listening to the birds.

Feeling the evening breeze.

Enjoying a quiet moment without feeling like I should be doing something else.

Those small moments have become some of the biggest blessings.

I no longer feel like I am chasing life.

I feel like I am finally living it.

Building a Peaceful Home Through Faith

The older I get, the more I understand that a peaceful home does not happen by accident. It grows through intention, gratitude, and surrender.

Proverbs 24:3–4 reminds me:

“By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.”

For years, I thought of a beautiful home in terms of what I could see.

Now I understand that the most important things inside a home cannot always be seen.

Peace.

Love.

Faith.

Memories.

Presence.

Psalm 23:2–3 speaks deeply into this season:

“He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul.”

I understand that differently now.

Rest is not something I only need at the end of a long day.

Rest is something I need woven into my everyday life.

Isaiah 32:18 also reminds me of God’s desire for us:

“My people will live in peaceful dwelling places, in secure homes, in undisturbed places of rest.”

That kind of peace feels less like a dream now and more like something God invites us to experience.

Choosing Simple Living in a Digital World

One of the biggest changes I have noticed in midlife is how much I crave simplicity.

Not because I want to go backward.

Because I want to be more present.

I want real pages instead of endless scrolling. I want quiet mornings instead of constant notifications. I want tea in a favorite mug, books stacked around my home, and spaces that encourage me to slow down.

I want my home to feel like a place where life happens, not another place where I feel pressure to keep up.

Because I have learned something important.

Peace does not come from adding more.

Peace comes from noticing more.

The Home I Always Wanted

When I look around now, I realize the home I always wanted was never just about the house itself.

It was about the feeling.

It was about creating a place where I could breathe.

A place where I could rest.

A place where I could see God’s goodness in the everyday moments.

My home holds my memories, my growth, my joys, and even the difficult seasons that shaped me.

Most importantly, it reminds me of a faithful God who carried me through every season before this one and continues to meet me right here.

And maybe that is the greatest gift of midlife.

Not creating a perfect home.

Creating a peaceful one.

Let’s Keep the Conversation Going

What does home mean to you in this season of life? Has your idea of home changed as you have gotten older?

I would love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Share your story and let’s encourage one another as we create homes filled with faith, peace, and joy.

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10 Tiny Ways to Make Your Home Feel Peaceful Again

Posted on June 2, 2026July 30, 2026 by Vikki Lynn Sorensen

Peace feels rare these days.

Everywhere I look, something fights for my attention. Phones buzz constantly. Social media feeds overflow with outrage and comparison. News headlines make the world feel heavier than it already is. Even home, the place that should feel safest, can sometimes feel loud and emotionally exhausting.

For a long time, I thought peace would come later.

Maybe after the next job.
The next house.
The next answered prayer.
The next season of life.

I kept waiting for everything around me to settle down so I could finally breathe deeply and rest. But over the last few years, God has slowly shown me something important: peace does not come from perfect circumstances. It comes from staying close to Him in the middle of imperfect ones.

That realization changed the way I live, the way I manage my home, and even the way I spend my time.

“I am leaving you with a gift—peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. So don’t be troubled or afraid.” — John 14:27 (NLT)

I do not have this figured out perfectly. Honestly, I am still learning. However, these are some of the things that have genuinely helped me create a quieter, more peaceful life and home.

Make Your Home About Jesus

The biggest shift in my home happened when I stopped trying to create “peaceful aesthetics” and started focusing on creating a home centered on Jesus.

A peaceful home does not have to look Pinterest-perfect.

Some days my kitchen is messy. Laundry piles up. Life feels busy and chaotic. Yet I have noticed that when I intentionally invite God into my daily life, the atmosphere in my home changes anyway.

Sometimes that looks like worship music playing softly while I crochet. Sometimes it means opening my Bible before opening social media. Sometimes it is simply whispering a prayer while walking the dog.

Small things matter.

“Unless the Lord builds a house, the work of the builders is wasted.” — Psalm 127:1 (NLT)

I cannot create real peace on my own. I have tried. It never lasts for long.

Put Limits on Social Media

This one has been hard for me because social media can feel relaxing at first. I sit down for “just a few minutes,” and suddenly an hour disappears.

Then I notice how unsettled I feel afterward.

Comparison steals peace quickly. So does constant negativity. Social media often makes the world feel angry, loud, and hopeless. It also makes it very easy to compare our everyday lives to someone else’s carefully edited highlight reel.

I do not think social media itself is evil, but I do think we need boundaries with it.

Lately, I have tried putting my phone down earlier at night and spending less time scrolling first thing in the morning. Honestly, my mind feels calmer when I do.

“You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” — Isaiah 26:3 (NLT)

What we constantly feed our minds eventually shapes our hearts.

Get Outside and Enjoy Life Again

One of the simplest things that helps my mental and emotional peace is stepping outside without my phone.

Not to take pictures.
Not to check notifications.
Just to exist for a little while.

Taking a walk, sitting in the sunshine, smelling flowers, listening to birds, or watching the wind move through trees sounds almost too simple to matter, but it really does help.

Nature slows me down in a way nothing else does.

It reminds me that God created a beautiful world even when life feels heavy and noisy.

“The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship.” — Psalm 19:1 (NLT)

Sometimes peace looks like sitting quietly outside with a cup of coffee and letting yourself breathe.

Reduce the Clutter

I know decluttering has almost become a trend at this point, but clutter genuinely affects my peace.

When my home feels overcrowded, my mind feels overcrowded too.

I started asking myself a simple question: Why am I holding onto things I do not use, need, or even enjoy anymore?

Now my rule is fairly simple. If I have not touched it in six months and it is not seasonal or sentimental, I probably do not need it.

Getting rid of excess stuff creates breathing room.

Less visual noise helps my mind feel quieter.

Spend Time in the Word

Nothing settles my heart faster than spending quiet time with God.

Not perfectly.
Not for hours.
Not with some elaborate Bible study setup.

Just quietly reading Scripture and spending time with Him.

The more I learn about the heart of God, the more peace I experience. Scripture reminds me that God remains faithful even when life feels uncertain.

I think we sometimes overcomplicate our relationship with God. We think we need perfect routines or deep theological knowledge before we can sit with Him.

We do not.

Open your Bible.
Read slowly.
Pray honestly.
Be quiet long enough to listen.

That simple consistency changes everything.

“Those who love your instructions have great peace and do not stumble.” — Psalm 119:165 (NLT)

Think Before You Speak

I tend to replay conversations in my mind afterward, especially when I speak too quickly or emotionally.

The older I get, the more I realize how much peace comes from slowing down before responding.

Not every opinion needs to be shared immediately.
Not every disagreement needs to become an argument.
Not every silence needs to be filled.

Sometimes I walk away from conversations feeling unsettled because I spoke from frustration instead of wisdom.

Other times, I leave feeling peaceful because I paused first.

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.” — James 1:19 (NLT)

I still fail at this sometimes, but intentional words create far more peace than impulsive ones ever will.

Engage in Creativity

Creativity has become one of my favorite forms of rest.

I crochet. I embroider. Occasionally, I color.

These hobbies slow my thoughts down because they require patience and focus. I cannot rush through them. I have to sit still long enough to create something carefully.

I think that is part of why creative hobbies feel peaceful. They force us to slow down in a world that constantly pushes us to hurry.

There is something deeply calming about working with your hands and creating something beautiful slowly.

Live a More Analog Life

This remains a work in progress for me.

Over the last year or so, I have started intentionally disconnecting more often. I bought a watch instead of constantly checking my phone for the time. I use an actual alarm clock now too.

Small changes like that help more than I expected.

Technology can absolutely be helpful, but too much of it pulls my attention in a hundred directions at once. Constant notifications make it hard to feel settled.

Living a little more simply has helped me become more present.

“Be still, and know that I am God!” — Psalm 46:10 (NLT)

Stillness feels uncomfortable at first when we are used to constant noise, but eventually it becomes healing.

Slow Down

This may be the hardest lesson God continues teaching me.

I naturally rush through life. I keep looking ahead toward the next thing, thinking happiness and peace will finally arrive when I get there.

However, peace rarely exists in the future.

It exists here.
Right now.
In ordinary moments.

Lately, I have tried slowing down enough to actually enjoy my life while I am living it instead of constantly waiting for a different season.

Sometimes that means sitting quietly with coffee in the morning.
Sometimes it means watching the sunset.
Sometimes it means simply breathing deeply and thanking God for another day.

“So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today.” — Matthew 6:34 (NLT)

Enjoy the Little Things

The older I get, the more I realize peace often lives in very small moments.

A warm cup of coffee.
A soft blanket during Bible reading.
A candle flickering nearby while reading a good book.
Tea before bed.
Rain tapping against the windows.

Simple things.
Quiet things.
Comforting things.

Those moments help me slow down and settle my heart.

Final Thoughts

I still have stressful days. I still overthink sometimes. I still get distracted, overwhelmed, and emotionally tired like everyone else.

However, I have learned that peace is less about creating a perfect life and more about creating intentional rhythms that bring me back to Jesus again and again.

The world constantly pushes us to hurry, consume more, achieve more, and chase more. Meanwhile, Jesus quietly invites us to slow down and rest in Him.

And honestly, I think that is the kind of peace most of us are truly searching for.

“You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!” — Isaiah 26:3 (NLT)

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Passing Down More Than Traditions

Posted on December 23, 2025July 30, 2026 by Vikki Lynn Sorensen

After we moved back home from Texas, life felt like it was shifting in ways I didn’t fully understand at the time. We were planting ourselves again—finding our footing, rebuilding routines, and learning what “home” really meant. It was during that season that I began a few simple Christmas traditions with my girls. At the time, they felt small. Looking back now, I can see how God was using them to build something much bigger.

The first tradition was an ornament each year—one that represented who they were in that season of life. A favorite hobby, an inside joke, a milestone year. The plan was always that one day, when they had homes and families of their own, those ornaments would go with them. A reminder that they were loved, seen, and cherished long before they ever hung a tree of their own.

Scripture tells us to “remember the deeds of the Lord” (Psalm 77:11). Those ornaments became a visual reminder of God’s faithfulness through the years—through moves, changes, growth, and grace.

The second tradition was opening one gift from Santa on Christmas Eve: Christmas “jammies”, or pajamas. Nothing extravagant. Just something new and cozy to sleep in and to wear on Christmas morning while we gathered around the tree. It was about creating a sense of anticipation and togetherness—a quiet, holy pause before the celebration.

Christmas Eve always reminds me of waiting. Waiting for morning. Waiting for light. Waiting for the fulfillment of a promise. Much like the world waited for a Savior, we rested in the stillness, knowing joy was coming.

The third tradition was socks in the stocking. Honestly, we thought it was funny—and it stuck. But even that small, practical gift carries meaning now. God cares about the everyday needs just as much as the big moments. Scripture reminds us that He provides everything we need (Matthew 6:32), sometimes in the simplest ways.

Today, those traditions are being passed down to my granddaughter.

I bought her her very first Christmas ornament—tiny and perfect, marking the beginning of her story. Santa delivered her Christmas jammies early this year. And of course, I found the tiniest socks to place in her very first Christmas stocking.

As I held those little items in my hands, I was reminded that legacy isn’t built in grand gestures. It’s built in consistency. In showing up. In creating spaces where love, faith, and joy are felt year after year.

Deuteronomy 6:6–7 tells us to impress God’s commands on our children—to talk about them at home, along the way, in the coming and the going. Sometimes, that looks like Bible study and prayer. And sometimes, it looks like ornaments, pajamas, and socks—quiet traditions that whisper, This is who we are. This is where we belong. This is how God has loved us.

Some traditions are worth carrying forward—not because they’re perfect, but because they point to a faithful God who never changes, from generation to generation.